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What's the point of living if we'll all end up in a coffin?
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What's the point of living if we'll all end up in a coffin?

April 1, 20264 min read

TL;DR — What's the point of being born, fighting, building a career if we'll all end up in a coffin? The point is that meaning isn't in the destination — it's in the journey. Finiteness is what gives value to a sunset, a hug, a laugh with a friend at midnight. Camus saw it right: one must imagine Sisyphus happy. Here's why we keep going even knowing we'll die.

This is one of the most honest questions a human being can ask. And the fact that you're asking it is already, paradoxically, part of the answer.

Meaning doesn't lie in the destination, but in the journey.

You're right: we'll all end up the same way. No career, no bank account, no trophy will follow us into the coffin. But this doesn't make the journey pointless — it makes it free.

Try thinking about it the other way

Think about it backwards for a moment: if we lived forever, every choice would be infinitely postponable. Nothing would have urgency, nothing would have weight. No dinner would have flavour, no word would have importance, no hug would have density. It would be an infinite grey.

It's precisely because time is limited that a sunset is beautiful. That a hug counts. That a laugh with a friend at midnight has a taste no eternity could replicate. Mortality isn't the bug of existence. It's the feature that gives meaning to everything else.

If we lived forever, every choice would be infinitely postponable. Nothing would have urgency, nothing would have weight. Mortality isn't the bug of existence: it's the feature that gives meaning.

What it's for, really

"What's the point?" — the point is the people you meet along the road. The point is the child you teach something to. The friend you lift in a dark moment. The colleague you see change trajectory thanks to something you said. The person who reads something you wrote and feels less alone.

Meaning isn't something you find at the end — it's something you create while you live.

It's not a motivational-poster concept. It's a precise mechanic. Meaning doesn't come delivered in a birthday package. You produce it, day after day, in the relationships you keep alive, in the things you build, in the people you help, in the words you leave.

Happy Sisyphus

Philosopher Albert Camus asked your same question in a famous book, "The Myth of Sisyphus" (1942). Sisyphus — condemned by the gods to push a boulder to the top of a mountain only to watch it roll back down every time — is for Camus the symbol of humanity. Every day the same boulder, every day the same effort, every day the return to the starting point.

Yet Camus arrives at a provocative conclusion: one must imagine Sisyphus happy. That boulder rolling down each time isn't a condemnation — it's the occasion to climb back up with consciousness. To choose, in the repeated gesture, to give it meaning. Not to be a victim of one's destiny, but a protagonist.

We don't win over death. We win over nihilism. They're two different victories.

The statistical privilege of being alive

You're not hustling to escape death. You're hustling because you're alive, and that's a statistically absurd privilege in a universe that's 99.9% rocks, gas and void.

Look at it this way: out of 10 to the 80th (an absurd number) particles in the known universe, the vast majority is cold hydrogen and radiation. Matter organised in a way that thinks about itself — that's extremely rare. You are that matter, for a short time. Don't hustle for eternity. Hustle because you drew the ticket.

Conclusion

The coffin is the same for everyone. But the story you arrive in there with — that's only yours.

What you wrote inside, what you meant to those who crossed your life, which things you built that survive you: there lies the meaning. Not in length — again, it's the same for everyone at the end — but in density.

Make density. It's the only sensible imperative that comes out of this question.

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